Keep calm at Christmas – the kind of simple mantra that can arouse feelings of anger, negativity, frustration. At such times it almost seems as if Christmas was created just to make you feel worse.
Now is when you need a three-minute breathing space, created specifically to deal with such feelings.
This meditation can be used to punctuate the day, dissolving negative thought patterns before they gain control over your life, or you can call on it as an emergency meditation that helps ground you when thoughts are becoming agitated, frantic and black.
Even during this short three minutes, you may find that your mind keeps running away in different directions. This is absolutely natural. It's what minds do, leaping around and offering up thoughts to your conscious self. When you find that your mind has wandered, gently bring it back to full awareness and continue following the steps as best you can.
The three steps to follow
1. Attend to the nowBring yourself into the present moment by deliberately adopting a dignified posture. Then ask: ‘What is going on with me at the moment?’
Notice and acknowledge your experience, instead of turning away. You might start by noticing the sensations in your body, especially where it is in contact with a chair or the floor. But also notice your emotions and thoughts.